Pick A Card: How is your sensuality/sexuality evolving?

The power of sensuality can lead you back home to yourself. Choosing to simply categorize your sensuality/sexuality as debauchery closes you off to the potential of accepting yourself fully, and embracing an eroticism that can offer you a new perspective on life.

It is important to note that all readings are meant for spiritual guidance only. The views in this reading do not condone harm against non consenting parties. Questions regarding specific health or legal issues should be brought to the attention of your personal physician or the appropriate legal professional.

Take a deep breath, close your eyes, and pick a card to receive your message.

Image of Pile One’s reading.

One

I can see that you no longer have any interest in arguing for limitations in your sensual expression. A transformative ending in your life has made this reality painstakingly clear. The brevity of life has challenged you to reevaluate how you have denied yourself access to sexual pleasure. The time for that is over and an irresistible feeling is taking place deep within your root chakra.

There is grief entangled with the sensations you are experiencing right now. The tears you shed are here to cleanse the grief of the past and make space for a pleasure that washes over your aching heart. You’ve been called to walk away Pile One, from a relationship, an ideology, or a lifestyle that does not prioritize your full sensual pleasure. There is something that has been inconsistent and is hindering you, something that you are aware of and ready to release.

On the other side of that release is actual, physical happiness — an existence that you don’t feel the urge to escape from. In this existence, even when reminiscing over past disappointments, the presence of sexual gratification overpowers any previous experiences deemed a failure. From this perspective, you realize there are no failures in the realm of sexuality, only opportunities to learn from your arousal.

Spirit is asking you to listen to the seductive call coming from your inner siren. Your sensuality (maybe even your sexuality) is craving fluidity but there’s nothing you have to fear, Pile One. Having the Death card as the focal energy of your reading along with the King of Wands supporting reminds me of the Phoenix rising from the ashes of destruction. There is no version of transformation in your pleasure that you cannot prevail over. How? Spirit is calling you to remember “there are more satisfying experiences available to me than I’m allowing myself to believe. Instead of settling for ______, I trust and expect that I can have ______. When fear or doubt blinds me to my limitless possibilities, I must remind myself that I am worthy of my desires and they are valid.”

It is time to step into your sensual power and lead the life you are truly meant to live Pile One. Your erotic, charismatic aura is awakening and admirers may be starting to notice. Embodying your confidence is inspiring others to courageously claim their own sexual liberation. To continue nurturing your inner siren, feed them with love and compassion: “Dear self, thank you for seeing the best in me. Thank you for being a friend to me when ______. Thank you for standing up for me when ______. Thank you for being patient with me and showing me compassion. I’m proud of you for ______. Thank you for breaking old habits that no longer serve you. Thank you for taking chances on me. Dear self, thank you.”

Image of Pile Two’s reading.

Two

It’s time to learn up on some new skills Pile Two. The energy coming from your reading is youthful, playful, and a bit naive in the realm of sensuality. While you may be experienced sexually, this reading is speaking to the newness of your sensual curiosities. There is a vulnerability to embodying the novice energy that is present. It takes a certain level of comfort and confidence to boldly proclaim “I don’t know” and then exist in that discomfort until your understanding of your erotic desires grows clearer.

This knowledge is coming to you through a physical sensation in the body. You have an emphasis on the page of pentacles tarot card (which represents matter and physical existence), one upright and the other reversed. You also have the page of swords upright (which represents your curiosity, intellect, and communication), that tells me your mind and body are almost on one accord. You may be struggling with the idea that surrendering to a kinky aspect of your nature could bring you a new level of self-assuredness and a resolution to how you view yourself. To create harmony between the two, within your sensuality, you must first truly feel safe, stable, and secure within your body.

The mind is a useful and powerful tool when recalibrating your relationship to the body. Be inquisitive Pile Two. Asking questions is a beneficial habit when learning about something you’ve never experienced before. The page of swords calls you to be observant. Notice the feelings manifesting in your body before and after receiving unfamiliar information. Once the feeling has been noticed, try to reframe it into another question to ensure that an unfavorable feeling isn’t unintentionally settling into a new learning experience.

Being communicative with people you trust who have asked similar questions in their life can create the foundation for a dialogue free from judgement and misunderstanding. Spirit is asking you to tap into your unbounded capacity to learn and soak up the euphoric feeling of acquiring knowledge about your pleasure. While having the World card show up in a reading usually suggests an entire universe of possibilities, Saturn’s rulership serves as a reminder that reasonable people also recognize their limits, and make wise choices to make the most of the time and space they’re allotted. Meaning you aren’t being called to try every kink on the sample platter all at once, Pile Two.

Remember, “vulnerability is a skill, and skills take practice. If I practiced being more open about ______ or ______, it would benefit not only me but the people around me.” Your open mindedness is the key to your surrender. “When I think about certain situations like ______, I’m ready to surrender what I think is the right outcome. I’m ready to expect the highest good for everyone involved. I’m ready to feel ______. I’m ready to look for ways to appreciate this experience. I’m ready to surrender my need for answers right now. I’m ready to accept clarity whenever it’s available.”

Your thoughts and words are spells Pile Two. Use the gift of your sensuality like a magical power, speak clarity over your path, and enchant yourself with the possibility that your arousal is leading you to learn about the most desirable and sexually liberating aspects of yourself. Spirit would also like for you to write your own embodyment* spell. It doesn’t have to rhyme, it just has to ground you in your present aliveness.

*the misspelling is intentional.

Image of Pile Three’s reading.

Three

You’re not having as much fun as you could be in the realm of your sensuality/sexuality Pile Three. Taking on the role of the wise teacher and elder in your community has convinced you that fun is not a responsible use of your sensual energy. Your heart craves a light-hearted, joyful renewal but your focus has been preoccupied with studies, logistics, and guiding others with your expertise. Based on the image in the page of cups, this could be building some pent up frustration within your professional or personal life. Spirit wants you to know that it’s time to put an end to sacrificing your desire for play in your sensuality on behalf of your prestigious role in society.

You could feel as if you’ve been “grandfathered” into the Teacher archetype, so much so that the Crone archetype is here to emphasize how impactful your wisdom is to your community. It shows me that you are a medicine healer devoted to your life purpose. But Spirit really wants to know, “why so serious, sugah?” Affirm to yourself: “I’m going to let my intuition guide me to more fun. I’m going to clear my head of limiting and lack-based noise and think of an activity that sounds really satisfying to do. The first thing that comes to mind is ______. I’m going to trust my inner guidance and make the time to ______ as soon as possible.”

This message is especially important if you’ve been noticing a lack of harmony or miscommunication between you and your loved ones. You are in serious need of some personal, sensual fun Pile Three. Tensions might be high and you keep finding yourself getting caught up in other people’s relationship problems. These are all signs of a well-needed, consensual, adult-friendly time to play. Right now, you may be waiting for a sign or further information before accepting an invitation and this could be your sign. Check in with yourself and ask whether shutting down is the best course of action, or if it’s time to open up to the pleasurable possibilities available to you.

For your soul teachings to be most effective, you have to know when to bring the expansiveness of a learning experience out of a stagnant environment and into the world. With the knight of pentacles in reverse, Spirit is calling you to be spontaneous. If you’ve been feeling stuck, overly conservative, or resistant to change, Spirit needs you to step out of the daily grind and embrace new ways of feeling good. “When it comes to ______, I don’t have all the answers and, frankly, I don’t need them to find ways to feel good right now. I can choose to rest easy about ______. Everything is okay. Help is on the way, and it can show up in many ways.”

It’s time to take it easy on the productivity choo-choo train. Be silly. Dilly into a self-pleasure appointment at 3 o’clock and then dally into a steamy, consensual, makeout session by 5 o’clock. There is no blue print for finding your enjoyment. Only the will to be patient in finding the pleasures that don’t have to compete with your jam-packed schedule.